@soberadventuring · with Alexis
Hi! I'm Alexis, but my friends call me Lexi, and you can too. :)
Over the last 9 years I've worked in recovery spaces as a recovery support specialist, an ABA therapist, and a sober house manager. I've been fully sober for 2 years now (thank God!) and I built this space to pay it forward.
I work with people two ways: a sobriety track (coaching that supports all pathways to recovery and is trauma-informed) and a freelance & career clarity track (I built a remote income on Upwork and I teach others how to do the same).
let's get something straight
I promise, it doesn't matter if you're sober, sober-curious, or just really done with the version of yourself that can't show up. You've been sold a story that isn't true, it may even be one of these:
the fun lie
"You'll never have fun at a party again."
You'll just stop pretending the party was fun to begin with.
the personality lie
"You'll lose your personality."
So far from the truth! You're going to become the best version of you, promise.
the networking lie
"Alcohol is required for networking, travel, and a real career."
I'm building a consulting business from Southeast Asia, sober, without a single networking happy hour. I've realized that the people worth knowing, will notice, and I'm willing to bet you'll realize that as well.
the employment lie
"No one will hire someone with your track record."
Stop trying to get hired and get clients. An employer may provide you benefits but your growth is capped and so is your pay. Freelancing cares about:
1. Do you have the confidence that you can deliver results?
2. Can you really deliver those results?
I'll show you exactly where to find the work and how to land it.
work with Alexis
Pick the track that fits where you are right now.
Career & Freelance
For people who want to freelance, work remotely, or build a real skill-based income. This is for you whether you're sober or not.
20 minutes. We figure out where you're stuck career-wise and map the first real move. This might be the most useful 20 minutes you spend this week.
Book the call →2 month engagement · $997 flat
For people who are finally done coasting. This is not for you if you don't have the time and ability to fully show up. We build your freelance positioning and craft your Upwork profile 1:1. We write your first proposals, and build the discipline systems that make it stick.
Apply →Sobriety Coaching
For people in or approaching sobriety who want practical support.
20 minutes. We figure out where you are in your sobriety, what's getting in the way, and I'll share resources that actually help. No judgment. No pitch.
Book the call →3 month foundation · $395/month
We run through the ALIVE Method together — from assessing where you're actually stuck to building a life you want to be present for. Graduates to optional ongoing support.
Payment plan options available.
Apply →the frameworks
Each built around where you actually are. Each with deliverables.
This is the framework behind every career coaching engagement. If you're looking to work with Alexis, this is what we run through together.
We get into a bit of shadow work here.
Everyone has a skill set. We find all of yours and package it so clients pay for it.
From "I have a skill" to "I got paid" — in a matter of weeks.
Nothing rewrites imposter syndrome like someone paying you for something you built and are proud of.
Design the life, once the income starts coming in. This is where we play — and create a real list of goals and actions for the freedom you now have through freelancing.
Built on 9 years in recovery spaces — recovery support specialist, ABA therapist, case manager, and sober house manager. Modalities: motivational interviewing, harm reduction, narrative + belief work, and values-based coaching. All pathways to recovery supported.
Internal (shame, identity, grief) or external (people, environment)? We figure this out first so nothing we do is wasted effort.
Isolation is the most common mistake in early sobriety. We identify who needs to go, who needs to come in, and where to find them.
We develop this through narrative and belief work, motivational interviewing, and values exercises that build the person underneath the sobriety.
Routine and the physical and social spaces you move through.
This is where it stops being about sobriety and starts being about your life.
2 minutes · free · instant result
Five questions. We'll tell you exactly where you are and what to do next.
Take the quiz →biweekly · free
Upwork jobs + the freelance framework that funds full-time travel.
Every week: a curated list of Upwork jobs worth applying to (some truly are BS and should be ignored). This list spans across marketing, VA jobs, sales, tech + more. At its core, this is filtered for people building remote income from scratch or pivoting their skills into freelance work.
Plus the real logistics of sustaining full-time travel as a freelancer from Chiang Mai and wherever I am next. It takes discipline. God knows I wouldn't be here without sobriety. But you don't have to be sober to use the framework.
Hand-picked roles across industries, with notes on why they're worth your time and how to position your application.
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Digital Products
For the ones who learn best by doing and want a clear roadmap they can run with on their own time.
Guide · Freelancing
A step-by-step guide to setting up your Upwork profile, writing proposals that get responses, and landing your first paid client — even with no reviews. Priced to be accessible because everyone should taste what freelance freedom feels like.
More guides and resources coming soon.
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